This is a question that I have seen arise numerous times in the host community, and I imagine those broaching it are invariably, perhaps even painfully, aware of the delicacy of their question. The stories are each different, but there are some similar themes.
Tina and Laura are hosts. They have a 2 bedroom apartment in Queens, in New York City. They originally started out as roommates each occupying one bedroom in their 2 bedroom apartment, but then when Airbnb came along, they heard that some of their friends were making a good income renting out a bedroom on Airbnb. Their rent is high, and they could use the extra income. So they got Tina's bedroom set up as a guest room, and moved most of Tina's things into Laura's room and the living room, and then listed the bedroom on Airbnb. They were amazed at how popular their place was -- they got a lot of bookings. When they had bookings, Tina and Laura would either stay in the same bedroom, or Tina would sleep on the sofa in the living room. They would have usually about 10 to 15 days booked each month.
There was one little issue, and it was a delicate one. THey hadn't asked their landlord for permission to have AIrbnb guests, and their rental agreement said "no subletting." Tina and Laura didn't actually know what was the exact meaning of " subletting". They had asked their friend Brian, and he said that it was subletting when you rented out your place while you were away, like on vacation, but if you were still staying in your own apartment while the guest was there, that wasn't subletting and it was okay. Apart from that, their landlord was a big time landlord with a lot of properties and they hardly ever saw or heard from him, and so they thought, what he doesn't know won't hurt him. In fact one of their friends, Lisa, also had an apartment in Queens, and was Airbnb-ing it, and she also had a lease that said "no subletting" and she said she thought her landlord actually didn't care if she had guests. LIsa had said her landlord saw some of her guests arriving with her a couple times, and he didn't say or ask anything, so she thought all was cool.
But Tina and Laura just heard another story, about Jim, a tenant host in Brooklyn, who got an eviction notice from his landlord when the landlord found out he was doing Airbnb hosting. Jim tried to fight the eviction but was not successful, and is having to move out of his rent controlled apartment he has been in for 12 years. Now Tina and Laura are scared and wonder what to do. They definitely don't want to get evicted. They thought of asking their landlord if it was okay to do, but were worried he would say no. Or he might ask if they've been hosting already. Tina and Laura think some of the other tenants in their building know that they are doing Airbnb hosting (their immediate neighbor does) but they don't know if any others in their building (a 60 unit building) are hosts.
So Tina comes to the host community to ask advice about what to do in this situation. What would your advice be?