I agree with just about everything being said here.
We've managed to hang on to our Superhost status but I swear, the more you do for a guest, they more they will drop your star rating. We have a particularly difficult time with our location rating on one of our two suites. That's totally frustrating because both suites are in the same house - one gets consistently high location ratings and with the other, we struggle to keep it above a 3.
It has reached the point where I have written in both reviews that some guests do not like our location. I have exagerrated the difficulty of getting in and our of the suite to the point where it just about sounds like if you are not a professional hiker, don't even bother, you won't be able to get down the stairs or the slope that leads to the house. I have said flat out - We are in North Adams. Do you want to come to North Adams? If so, great. We are in North Adams. If you do not want to go to North Adams, please book elsewhere.
They book anyway and then they complain about the town. Seriously, they do this.
Right now, I spend about a third of my time in communication with our guests, politely discouraging them from coming to our house. I'm not kidding about that either. I tell them we are not new, not accessible in any way, not toddler friendly. One of our last potential guests complained about the price and wanted to have his child overlooked as a person - had a ton more complaints. I found him two alternate listings, more suitable for him and went to Airbnb asking them to please make sure he had his fees refunded so he could apply them to his next booking at another listing.
I am learning that being a Superhost means knowing when to say, no. Unfortunately, sometimes it's as much work to say no as it is to just take the booking. But I won't take the hit - not anymore. I have never refused a booking where the place didn't get booked by a better guest for the same dates. Really. I think that has to do with the reasons people travel. Lots of people come to town for events. There are only so many choices they can make and we're among the best, in my opinion. Not because our place is the nicest but because we care about people's comfort. There are always going to be guests who do not appreciate that. My job is to keep those guests out of our house.
I don't always succeed.
I think the guest review should work like a ten-star system. 5 stars means a host has been adequate. There is water in the bathroom, a bed in the bedroom - whatever was promised on the listing is actually there.
The other 5 stars should be an "essay question" in other words, the written part of the review. If a guest leaves fewer than 5 stars, they don't have the right to talk about how much they liked the place. It's lying. If a guest leaves fewer than 2 stars, fine - they have the right to talk about what they felt was lacking in their experience. But this 3 and 4 star BS? Coupled up with a glowing review? No. I don't want those people in my house. They're liars - I know that's putting it bluntly but it's the truth. If you write a review as a guest and damage someone's ability to compete in a tough market and then at the very same time, you talk about how great they are because you feel guilty or you've got some stupid idea that perfection should be unattainable and it's all about you and your stay and the whole world revolves around you and all the rest of that crap - stay in a hotel. I don't want you.
I wish I could say that to all of our guests but my husband is too nice, he won't let me.
When we are guests, if we can't leave a 5 star review we don't leave a review at all. Just because we don't love a place is no reason to hurt someone financially.
I also believe only guests who have stayed in a minimum of three listings should even be allowed to post a review. How do they know how this listing compares to any others if it's the only one they've ever visited?
Don't kick yourself because you've had crappy guests. Talk to them, feel them out and, as much as possible, learn to say no to them before they wash up on your doorstep with their misery stick loaded for bear. If I have any advice, that's it.
Just my two cents. Time to scrub the toilets.