Hi @John2273. Anyone looking at your listing who wants to book it on instant book, can’t... if they do not meet your requirements. However, that doesn’t restrict them from making contact to ask for themselves. From my understanding, that sounds like what has happened.
Respond quickly, but unless you have great communication happening, I would RESIST hitting the decline or pre-approval button. In such instances I’ve been friendly but stated the reason they couldn’t instant book were either 1, not govt ID verified, or currently have no reviews or no positive published reviews from hosts. That it’s like a reference.... I communicate, that for me to consider their enquiry, they would need to agree to my house rules in full, no exceptions. They would require a govt. ID verification added to their profile, as well as a full facial profile image. If they are unsure I ask them to please read my compliance requirements for guests, in my house rules. This seems to deter time wasters.
If they do not show good communication or any willingness to comply, I also state I will require copies/ photos IDs of all non-children in the booking, on arrival. That definitely weeds out negatively intentioned guests.
We do what we can, to protect our property, self and families. The average guest is more then willing to meet your needs if they really wish to stay. They usually are wonderful guests, just maybe newbies starting out!