@Pete129, you allow 1 night stays in a big house that accommodates a lot of people at a cheap rate (when divided by 10)... .. all the must haves for partiers. I would switch to a two-night minimum.
It is really important to tell people when they book that you live close by. Spin this off as a positive. You won’t be far if they need anything and you are readily available should a problem occur. People who intend to break the rules don't want you spying on them. To people who wouldn't think about breaking the rules, you are just a neighbor.
You may want to think about charging for additional people after 4 or 5, or whatever you believe to be a large group. You do run the risk of guests sneaking people in but you live close by so you it would be easier to police. More people mean more trash, more water/sewer usage, more laundry, etc.
Whenever a guest books I try to send them a message that makes me sounds like a real person (not some robot taking bookings.) I tell them something about myself or give them some advice if they let me know why they are in the area. I try to sound genuinely excited and happy that they are coming to visit my neck of the woods. I give my guests privacy but I let them know where to find me if they wanted to stop by and say hello, I would love to meet them. You probably already communicate like this but I think that people are less likely to disrespect people that they feel like they know rather than a complete stranger.