Knowing you are super hosts from your own perspective is much better than having to meet someone elses standards, in this case a computer program on a web site. Statistically the more times you host, the less chance of meeting these unrealistic algorithm calculations. Super host status is just an idea and like all ideas they are not good bad or indifferent in and of themselves. Realise that for some time you had a small icon with your listing, did it really create more revenue, probably not, you probably held your price constant. Did it improve the quality of the guests you attracted, probably not, thier expectations were now unrealistically high, maybe. Personally I would not waste too much time trying to make other people opinion of you the focus of your attention, as there is clearly always one out there and you might have been unlucky to have hosted that one. Take a few slow deep breaths, know this will pass and treat yourselves and each other with the higherst regard, knowing you have opened your selves up to others opinion and it is not always accurate or what you want to hear. Final thought, in the grand scheme of life, your reflections will be about the real relationships and not the imagined.
Suggestions: People like shinny stuff and they also like to be made to feel as if they are important (mostly they are not, however many are). Put some shinny stuff around key areas, it actually makes a difference, it shouldnt but it does. Also during your conversations use a little suggestion e.g. bla bla bla "like me" bla bla bla "more and more bla bla bla (you get the idea) also use the number 5 or higher as much as you can whilst engaging with guests. Give them high 5's believe it or not this actually works. Not that I have though about being a super host, perish the though I am more interested in happyness and love than shaped pixels on a screen.
Still not convinced, then let me do the most obvious trick in the book: "We think you are great, you are doing a fantastic job, well done, keep up the good work, we are proud of you". Now take that feeling double it double it again and memorise it for the rest of your life, know it will always be there waiting for you when you need it.
One last attempt, print off the super host badge and stick it on your screen.
